Thursday, August 09, 2007

Count On Me, Singapore!

9876543210
9.8.7 -- The Date
6:54:32 -- The Time
1 -- The 1 person who is thinking of you always.
0 -- No one else thought of this.

From your true love
~ BBB <3

Hilary Duff - I Am
I'm an angel, I'm a devil
I am sometimes in between
I'm as bad as it can get
And good as it can be
Sometimes I'm a million colours
Sometimes I'm black and white
I am all extremes
Try to figure me out you never can
There's so many things I am

I am special
I am beautiful
I am wonderful
and powerful
Unstoppable
Sometimes I'm miserable
Sometimes I'm pitiful
But that's so typical of all the things I am

I'm someone filled with self-belief
I'm haunted by self-doubt
I've got all the answers
I've got nothing figured out
I like to be by myself
I hate to be alone
I'm up and I am down
But that's part of the thrill
Part of the plan
Part of all of the things I am

I'm a million contradictions
Sometimes I make no sense
Sometimes I'm perfect
Sometimes I'm a mess
Sometimes I'm not sure who I am

Saturday, May 05, 2007

Being There.

"These are the times when you know who your friends are.
The person whom you have helped,
will they help you or will they walk away from you?"
~ A. Karim BAR, Airport Duty Manager.


With this post I would like to express my appreciation for all the SMSes I received from my friends who heard the news even though it was to be kept within my office until the official announcement in the media.

Yes, I've lost my job together with the rest of my colleagues and my boss.

Despite the hush hush, there were a few who managed to sneak a message to my mobile and I had to keep quiet and ignore their messages. Sorry, my friends.

So now since it is confirmed, let me say thank you to all who have been giving me inspiration and encouragement to carry on --

Nurul
Nurdianna
Nuritz
Deamora
Yusry
Sharmila
Munir
Rahmat


These people came to me with open minds and helped me emotionally.

Emotionally, I am stable. I am still what I am.
No signs of depression. No signs of agression.

Even my boss was surprised at how I handle the situation.

Little did they know that losing my job did not affect me at all.
I had lost everything so what's losing another bit of my life?

Something really BIG happened to me and I was still mourning and in pain when the confirmation was declared.

No thanks to the broken heart.
No thanks for not being there for me.
No thanks for leaving me when I needed you most.

To all my friends, I have this to say --
I am a nobody.
Thank you for being there!

Monday, April 30, 2007

The Dance Floor.

My congratulations to the winners of The Dance Floor, Singapore's version of Now You Can Dance
-- namely Vas & Pris.

Seriously, I am not an avid follower of this competition the reason being that, on the very first time it was aired live over Channel 5, I had already visualised how the Singaporean voters would sms their votes ---> towards Vas & Pris.

Yeah, they are good dancers but somehow, by that one viewing, I gathered that Singaporeans would be voting for this loveable and skilful dancing couple.

True enough, halfway during the final, poll statistics showed that Val & Pris were ahead of the other finalists.

I disagree and do not like the idea of Mediacorp displaying the voting statistics halfway during the show. This would encourage viewers to vote due to the popularity of the participants instead of according to their talents in dancing.

Val & Pris would have been jeopardised of their number one spot if voters vote irresponsibly.

If I were a bookie, this revelation of how the votes stand halfway during the show would increase the odds.

Anyway, I did not really watch the finals of The Dance Floor as I needed my rest.

I was sure and confident that Vas & Pris would be the champion that night and they surely did.

Congratulations, Vas & Pris!
We Are The Champion!
Prize giving ceremony.
Let's Dance.

Saturday, April 21, 2007

Akon - Don't Matter.

I know someone who was wondering about what song this is.
Here's to that someone.
:-)




Don't Matter
Artist: Akon


Konvict Konvict
Oh
Ohoohwooe
Oooh
Ooohhwooe

Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Cause we gon' fight
Oh yes we gon' fight(We gon' fight)
Believe we gon' fight(We gon' fight)

Fight for our right to love yeah
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you

Nobody wanna see us together
Nobody thought we'd last forever
I feel I'm hopin' and prayin'
Things between us gon' get better
Men steady comin' after you
Women steady comin' after me
Seem like everybody wanna go for self
And don't wanna respect boundaries
Tellin' you all those lies
Just to get on your side
But I must admit there was a couple secrets
I held inside
But just know that I tried
To always apologize
And I'ma have you first always in my heart
To keep you satisfied

Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Cause we gon' fight
Oh yes we gon' fight(We gon' fight)
Believe we gon' fight(We gon' fight)

Fight for our right to love yeah
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you

Got every right to wanna leave
Got every right to wanna go
Got every right to hit the road
And never talk to me no more
You don't even have to call
Even check for me at all
Because the way I been actin' lately
Has been off the wall
Especially towards you
Puttin' girls before you
And they watchin' everything I been doin'
Just to hurt you
Most of it just ain't true(Ain't true)
And they won't show you
How much of a queen you are to me
And why I love you baby

Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Cause we gon' fight
Oh yes we gon' fight(We gon' fight)
Believe we gon' fight(We gon' fight)

Fight for our right to love yeah
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you

Oh oh oh oh oh
Cause I got you
Cause I got you
Ooooh
Cause I got you babe
Cause I got you

Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Cause we gon' fight
Oh yes we gon' fight(We gon' fight)
Believe we gon' fight(We gon' fight)

Fight for our right to love yeah
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe
Cause we gon' fight
Oh yes we gon' fight(We gon' fight)
Believe we gon' fight(We gon' fight)

Fight for our right to love yeah
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter no
Cause I got you babe

Sunday, April 08, 2007

You Are My Sunshine, My Only Sunshine.

It was last Thursday evening that we met and after dinner, we strolled to a nearby theater, having no idea which movie to watch.

Somehow, when we reached the ticket counter, the trailer of Sunshine appeared on the big plasma screen. The good visual and special effects along with the mystery involved made us decide to watch the movie.

Sunshine.
It is 2057 and eight scientists of men and women are being sent on a mission to the Sun, to save our ailing star from imminent death.

The only way to save the sun is to send a bomb the size of Manhattan Island into the sun via their spaceship Icarus II. If you study Greek Mythology, you will realise that anything to do with the universe is named after a greek god -- Apollo, Mercury, Jupiter, Pluto etc.

Icarus is the Greek character that flew too close to the sun and his wings melted causing him to plunge to his death. So now you roughly know what happened to Icarus I, the first spacecraft on the same mission 7 years prior to this. It had mysteriously vanished.

Icarus
But please note that the mission for Icarus II is not to search nor salvage Icarus I but to safe the future of Mankind by saving the sun.

The crew of Icarus II.I laughed at the plot of saving the sun. In my unscientific mind, I was yelling to the crew, "Do you know how big the Sun is? Even a nuclear bomb the size of our Earth will not affect the sun. On the other hand, the Sun's small flare burst can dehydrate the Earth within seconds."

Plot aside, I decided to just let go and enjoy the movie. It's going to be a mystery, isn't it?

The Sun.
The mission went smoothly until they were within the point of no return. The point where they lose communication contact with Mother Earth.

The Last Message.
In the loneliness of Space travel, there was a sense of belonging when Mercury was seen orbiting the Sun.

And in that loneliness and sense of belonging, a familiar stress signal was detected. It was from Icarus I, the ship they thought had been destroyed in the first mission.

Here comes the predictable event. Yes, they decided to divert to Icarus I and get its payload (The Bomb) so that now they have double the chance of exploding the Sun from the inside.
Icarus II
Capa
Watch the movie and enjoy the mystery. How did they manage to fly from one spacecraft to another without a spacesuit? Yes, you can hold your breath for that 15 seconds or yes, you can withstand that minus 35 degrees for a moment. But looks like the producer had forgotten about air-pressure! Your lungs will explode once you fly through a vacuum.

The scientists were jettisoned into space -- one with a spacesuit but two without!!! They must have come not from Earth but from the planet Krypton.

The corridor.


I solved the mystery of how a fifth being managed to enter Icarus II.
Took me two puzzling hours after I reached home to realise the answer.

It was a good movie.
There was mystery and suspense but with predictable ending.

The night at the movie brought me a smile.

Baby,
we met and it's not
Thunder, Lightning nor Rain.

It's SUNSHINE.

SUNSHINE

Saturday, April 07, 2007

A Good Friday.

Yesterday was a Public Holiday as it was Good Friday. As I hurried myself to the mosque for the Friday prayers, I saw a sight that made me proud.

There were groups of people all dressed up in different colours from everywhere walking towards a common destination. You can see fathers walking with their sons and you know that they are family by the way they were dressed in similar colours and fashion.

The crowd from all over Tampines streamlined towards Darul Ghufran Mosque and in my heart I felt like the Eid reenacting before my very eyes. I remembered my ustaz telling us that Friday is a day of celebration for Muslims and yes I do feel the celebration at that moment.

The mosque was filled with eager worshippers and fortunately I managed to squeeze in between two pakciks (uncles). I had subconsciously told myself "Now if this pakcik can just move to the left and the other pakcik move a little bit to the right, I can get a place to pray on the 4th row (saf) between them."

Positive thinking does have positive effects because as soon as I stood between them, they gave me space, actually more space than I had anticipated and I performed the two raka'ats of Solaatul Tahiyyatul Masjid in comfort.

My eyes caught sight of a two-seater sofa placed in the vicinity of the mimbar. Surely the imam is not going to sit there during his sermon, would he? He surely did not.

The two-seater was for a forum that would take place after the Friday prayers at 2.15pm in conjuction with the celebration of Maulidur Rasul.

I stayed behind although this was unplanned, fighting the hunger pangs that attacked me. It was my fault for skipping breakfast and the last food intake was somewhere at Bras Basah Road on a Thursday evening with my special someone. It was her birthday week and she deserved all the attention I gave her.

Anyway, the forum was about the life of the last Messenger, Muhammad S.A.W. and the speaker was Ustaz Jamaluddin Abdul Wahab, the Chief Imam of Masjid Darul Ghufran.

12 Rabiul Awal
He started the speech about the significance of the date 12 Rabiul Awal in Islam.

He stressed that 12 Rabiul Awal should be remembered not only about the birth of the Prophet but about the death of the Prophet as well.

It is common for people to think of pleasant things and try to forget things that saddened them. A child cries alone while the world laughs when he is being born but that very child will laugh alone while the whole world cries when he leaves for the Hereafter.

There were many sources of how Muhammad S.A.W. was born and the event that lead to him being born in Mecca. Not all the sources can be taken as some sources are erroneous.

It was confirmed that Muhammad was born in the year the elephants attacked the Ka'aba. It was also confirmed that Muhammad was born in the month of Rabiul Awal of that year. These two facts are agreed by Muslim scholars.

They somehow differ in their opinions of on the date of birth. One group says 9 Rabiul Awal and another group says 12 Rabiul Awal.

Ustaz Jamaluddin pointed out that whatever it is, we are celebrating the Maulid in the month of Rabiul Awal and if it so happens on the 9th or the 12th, it should not affect anybody since no miracle will happen or take place.

On the contrary, 12 Rabiul Awal is the date Muhammad S.A.W. died and everybody agrees about this. Henceforth, that date should be more significantly remembered as the day our Prophet returned to Allah.

The Day Rasulullah Died.
Ustaz Jamaluddin narrated the reactions of the Sahabahs when Muhammad S.A.W. passed away.

At that time, Muhammad's S.A.W. father-in-law and best friend, Abu Bakar As-Siddiq r.a. was not near him. Abu Bakar r.a. was an emotional man and he loved the Prophet S.A.W. very much. He cannot bear to see his loved one on his last breath so Abu Bakar r.a. stayed away and waited from a distance.

Omar Al-Khattab r.a. upon hearing the death of the Prophet got emotional and could not believe his ears. He rushed to the commotion the gathering crowd had made and announced that whoever said that Muhammad S.A.W. has died will receive what he was holding. He had slightly unsheathed his sword threatening to kill anyone who said that the beloved Rasul S.A.W. had passed away.

Ustaz Jamaluddin while chronicling this event stressed that Omar Al-Khattab was the most feared by all. The Roman Empire would have shivered upon hearing his anger. Even Shaitaan is afraid of Omar Al-Khattab r.a.

Omar Al-Khattab r.a. need not unsheath his sword, he need not use a sword to threaten anybody. Even if he had used a spoon and pointed at the crowd, he would still pose a threat and strike fear to them. His angry voice sufficed to bring fear to those around.

Omar Al-Khattab r.a. was really grief-stricken. Who would be able to control him? Nobody else but Abu Bakar As-Siddiq r.a.

Abu Bakar As-Siddiq r.a. was called right after the Prophet passed away and he witnessed Omar Al-Khattab's anger.

He spoke to the crowd, " Whoso worshippeth Muhammad, let him know that Muhammad is dead; but whoso worshippeth Allah, let him know that Allah liveth and dieth not." So saying, he recited certain verses from the Quran, which no doubt had long dwelt upon his mind, as signifying that Muhammad was mortal and would die as other Prophets had died before him.

Recognising the sacred words to bear a meaning that had never struck him before, Omar Al-Khattab r.a. was speechless. "My limbs trembled," he would say when speaking of that memorable hour, "and I knew of a certainty that Muhammad was dead indeed." His iman had overpowered his anger!


Love for the Prophet Muhammad S.A.W.
Ustaz Jamaluddin talked about how we should show our love for the last Messenger of Allah.

1. SIDQ
As a muslim, we should believe in whatever the Prophet tells us. Muhammad S.A.W. as a young boy prior to his prophethood was a trustworthy person. He does not tell a lie. Everybody trusted him and believed in him. Allah had made the prophet such that he was of a respectable character from a respectable Quraish tribe in the Arab community.

When Muhammad S.A.W. told the muslim community that he had experienced "Israk Mi'raj" a journey that made him travel from Mecca to Baitul Maqdis and then from the Earth to the 7th level of Heaven during the night, the loyalty of the muslims were tested.

Some would think that Muhammad S.A.W. was insane knowing very well that he does not tell a lie. Abu Lahab took advantage of this situation to spread doubts amongst the Muslims.

When Abu Bakar r.a. who was away, heard about this through another sahabah, he confessed that "If Muhammad S.A.W. said so then it is true and I believed him!"

The irony was that Abu Bakar r.a. was not even there when Muhammad S.A.W. announced about his extra-ordinary journey but for the love of the Prophet, he believed without a second thought.

This act of acknowledging the truth about what Muhammad S.A.W. had said, earned Abu Bakar the title of As-Siddiq and as of that day he was known as Abu Bakar As-Siddiq.

2. Do Whatever The Prophet S.A.W. Tells You To Do.
When Muhammad S.A.W. announced that all the women had to cover their hair, this was done immediately. The women had no time to go shopping to buy scarves and most of them are poor.

For the love of the Prophet, they covered their heads with fragments of cloth sewn together to form a scarf. It was ugly but it served it's purpose. Even Aishah r.a. commented to the Prophet that the women looked as if they had crows sitting on their heads.

My eyes started tearing when this was told. Oh how strong the iman of those women that they did not care how ugly or ridiculous they look, just to please their love for the Prophet and Allah.

3. Refrain From What The Prophet S.A.W. Forbade Us.
When the Prophet announced the total prohibition of alcohol consumption, the muslim community who regarded drinking alcohol as drinking tea, did not reluctantly but willingly destroyed all containers and bottles of alcohol. That day, the Prophet had announced that the consumption of alcohol is Haram, that day, the pathways were wet with alcohol. This was done immediately for the love of the Messenger of Allah.

4. Do As How Muhammad S.A.W. Had Done It.
Ustaz Jamaluddin gave this last point and related to us the story of three sahabahs.

There were three sahabahs who told each other what they intended to do to increase their Iman. One of them said that he would fast the whole year non-stop. One of them said that he would not sleep at all and another said that he would not get married but devote his life to Allah.

Muhammad S.A.W. overheard this and considered this an urgent matter. In his feeble health, he ambled to the three sahabahs and confirmed to them what he had just overheard. After they had spoken that Muhammad S.A.W. had not heard wrongly, Muhammad said.

"I am the one person who loves Allah so dearly and I am his Rasul. There were days that I do not fast. I sleep at night and I got married. Do not do things that I do not do. Do as I do."

This statement has great implications. There were times when one would do ibadah thinking without checking that this was how Muhammad S.A.W. had done it. Unfortunately, I am one of them. It struck a blow on me and served as a wake-up call.


Celebrating Maulidur Rasul.
Ustaz Jamaluddin clarified about the celebration of the birth of our beloved Prophet S.A.W. This was not done during the lifetime of Muahmmad S.A.W. nor during the sahabah's time.

Some scholars considered this a Bid'ah. Here Ustaz Jamaluddin had to use Qiyas, the use of an event that somehow shows the celebration is allowed.

When Muhammad S.A.W. asked his Jew friends why they fast on the 10th of Muharram as he had been observing them to do so for the past years, he was told that it was because on that day Moses was freed from the evil Pharoah. The jews fasted to commemorate the joyful event.

Muhammad S.A.W. then said, "In that case, I have more rights to celebrate such an event since Moses was a phrophet of Islam, like me. I shall fast today and tomorrow. Next year, I shall fast the day before, the actual day and the day after!"

In another instance, Muhammad S.A.W. was asked why he fasted on Mondays and Thursdays. He replied that he was born on a Monday therefore he fasted on Mondays.

These two events showed that the Prophet celebrated to remind him of joyous occasions.

Henceforth, we celebrate Maulidur Rasul to commemorate the birth of Muhammad S.A.W. so as not to stray from the path of Islam.


George Bernard Shaw.
Ustaz Jamaluddin quoted what George Bernanrd Shaw said about Muhammad S.A.W. Please note that this guy is a non-muslim.

"If Muhammad were to be alive today,
the world will be at peace."

That was what I can remember about the forum.
It was a good day.
It was a Good Friday.

All the good things come from Allah and all the bad things you find here come from me.

Wednesday, April 04, 2007

The Most Pleasant Memory.

I've been listening to this song on the radio in the wee early morning in my office for the past few months. The DJ had either forgotten to inform us what is the title and singer of the song or he assumed that we know or I must have dozed off when he revealed the information.

Anyway, it recently appeared back in my life haunting me with the ever repetitive lovely notes that pierced through my heart when the chorus comes about.

Special thanks to that special someone who happened to let me listen to her i-pod, I eventually found out what I wanted.

Yeah ... the song's haunting me now and the event leading to this brings me pleasant memories about us.

My message to that special someone is seen written in the last segment of the video!

Let's see if you can read it.



Samsons - Kenangan Terindah
Album - Naluri Lelaki

Aku yang lemah tanpamu
Aku yang rentan karena
Cinta yang t’lah hilang
Darimu yang mampu menyanjungku

Selama mata terbuka
Sampai jantung tak berdetak
Selama itu pun aku mampu
Untuk mengenangmu

Darimu kutemukan hidupku
Bagiku kaulah cinta sejati

(Korus)
Bila yang tertulis untukku
Adalah yang terbaik untukmu
Kan kujadikan kau
Kenangan terindah dalam hidupku
Namun takkan mudah bagiku
Meninggalkan jejak hidupku
Yang t’lah terukir abadi
Sebagai kenangan yang terindah

Darimu kutemukan hidupku
Bagiku kaulah cinta sejati

Tuesday, April 03, 2007

For Whom The Bear Hugs?

Card for SM.

Hamper for SM.
Bear for SM.
What are these all about?
Only one other person knows the answer.
It is now OUR secret!

Personal note:
Sayang, I feel the sunshine whenever you're by my side.
It does not matter what weather it shall be --
be it thunder, lightning or rain ....
I'll always be with you.

I'm always looking forward
to meeting you again.

May our relationship flourish
in all kinds of weather.
Ameen.

Friday, March 30, 2007

Maulidur Rasul

Muhammad S.A.W.
To all my brothers and sisters of Islam who so happen to read my blog, I wish them to commemorate this day together and have a memorable Maulidur Rasul.

What is Maulidur Rasul?

It is the day the last Messenger (Rasul) of Allah was born!

Muhammad (S.A.W.) was born on a Thursday, on the 12th day of Rabiul Awal in the year of the Elephant which is equivalent to 23 April 571 in the Gregorian Calendar.

Allahumma Solli 'Alaa Muhammad
Wa 'Alaa Aali Muhammad
Kama Solaitaa 'Alaa Ibrahim
Wa 'Alaa Aali Ibrahim.
Wa Baarik 'Alaa Muhammad
Wa 'Alaa Aali Muhammad
Kama Barakta 'Alaa Ibrahim
Wa 'Alaa Aali Ibrahim.

Ameen

Okay, folks ...
I'm off to the mosque!

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Flesh-Eating Bug!

I received the following email on 22 March 2007 through the office colleague. Thinking that it was a farce I ignored it but my mind changed until I saw an article in the New Paper about the flesh-eating bug!

The email that I received --

Dear Colleagues & Friends,

My family and I would like to thank each and everyone of you for your generous contributions and heartfelt condolences showered on us during the bereavement of our father.

I would also like to take this opportunity to caution all to be aware that you must consult the doctor immediately if you are injured by any crabs and developed such symptoms: vomiting, diarrhea, nausea, fever and slight swelling of the wound. This is to ensure you do not become another victim of the Flesh Eating Bugs.

Enclosed are the events of what had happened to my father.

My father was pricked by the crabs (bought from .- a well known supermkt....) while washingthem at about 11am on 22nd Feb 07.

He was fine until mid-night when he became ill with vomiting, diarrhea, nausea, fever and swelling of the wound.

As he was still conscious, he did not want to go to the hospital for treatment. At about 6 am, he became semi-conscious and we called for the ambulance to send him to the hospital.

When the paramedic arrived, they advised that he is in very critical condition as his heart beats were irregular and his blood pressure had dropped to very low or critical condition.

He was immediately sent to the nearest hospital (NUH) where the doctor stabilized his condition and immediately operates his hand to try and remove the infection which has traveled up to his elbow.

During the operation, the doctors came back to us and advised that he was infected by the Flesh Eating Bugs and they were unable to remove them. They advised that they need to amputate his hand from the elbow to remove the source of the infection to give him a surviving chance.

After the amputation, he was sent to the ICU for observation. His condition was stable but no improvement was seen.

Next morning, 24th Feb 07, the doctors called us back and informed that my father will go anytime and nothing can be done to improve his condition as he was already on maximum dosage of the drugs.

The doctors also suggested that we reduce the dosage to let him try on his own to live or go quickly and reduce his sufferings.

He died peacefully half hour after the drugs were reduced in the afternoon.

Thank you once again and may you all be well and happy and be blessed with good health.

Warmest Regards


The Electric New Paper :

Man dies of flesh-eating bug after being nicked by live crab. His last words:

The worms inside me must come out

THEY were strange words. But they were a sign that all was not well with Mr Tan Boon Hock.
By Joyce Lim

23 March 2007

THEY were strange words. But they were a sign that all was not well with Mr Tan Boon Hock.

The words, which were uttered to his daughter, also turned out to be his last.

Mr Tan, 83, died from a 'flesh-eating bug' after a crab nicked him with its pincers.

The rare bacteria had entered his body through the wound. Despite a last-ditch effort by doctors to save him by amputating his arm, the elderly man died within two days.

Tragedy and pain were far from everyone's minds when his brother-in-law visited the family at their four-room HDB flat on the fourth day of Chinese New Year and gave them live crabs.

Mr Tan's daughter, Ms Mary Tan, 47, said: 'Everyone in our family loves crabs'.

The childcare teacher added that her uncle loves to give them live crabs whenever he visits them.

That day, he had bought the crabs from a neighbourhood supermarket.

Mr Tan's wife, Madam Sit Ong Kee, told The New Paper that as she was not home, her husband decided to steam the crabs the next day.

Madam Sit, 83, said it was always her husband's job to clean the crabs as she did not know how to do it.

Ms Tan recalled: 'My dad and mum ate the crabs in the afternoon and he saved one for me when I went home for dinner that night.

'My dad then showed me a plaster at the back of his left palm.

'He told me that he was wounded by a crab while cleaning it. He looked fine and it did not cross my mind that the wound could be fatal.

'My dad did not suffer from high blood pressure or diabetes. I'm still shocked by his accident.'

That day after eating the crabs, at around midnight, Mr Tan started throwing up and had diarrhoea more than five times, Madam Sit said.

'He became very weak and I stayed up the whole night to look after him,' she said in Hokkien.

'His legs were very weak and I had to take him to the toilet many times.'

At 1am, Madam Sit woke her daughter, who was sleeping in the next room.

Ms Tan said: 'By 3am, my dad was too weak to go to the toilet.

'We just let him pass motion on his bed. He could still talk and said that he did not want to go to the hospital.'

It did not occur to Ms Tan that her dad's condition was critical and would eventually become fatal.

Ms Tan, who lives with her parents in the flat, recalled the last thing her dad told her: 'He said to me in Hokkien that all the worms inside him must come out.

'I thought that was strange.'

Ms Tan and her mother had thought that Mr Tan was suffering from food poisoning.

By 6am, the next day, Madam Sit was exhausted from looking after her husband.

She then called her fourth child and only son, MrTan Aik Cheng, for help.

The younger Mr Tan, 50, an engineer, said: 'I told my younger sister, who lives with my parents, to call for an ambulance.

'When I arrived at my parents' flat, the paramedics told me that my dad was in critical condition. His blood pressure was dropping rapidly and his heartbeat was irregular.'

The elder Mr Tan was admitted to National University Hospital (NUH) on 23Feb.

His son said: 'Doctors at NUH told me that my dad was attacked by a flesh-eating disease and the infection had travelled from his hand to his elbow.

'My dad's arm had to be amputated to prevent the flesh-eating bacteria from spreading further. It was his only chance to survive.

'But even so, he did not make it.'

The elder Mr Tan died the following afternoon in the intensive care unit.

All his nine children and 14 grandchildren were by his bedside when he died. His son said: 'My dad's eyes were closed.

'But we whispered into his ear and we saw tears flowing from his eyes. We believe he heard us. Then he left us.'

Mr Tan described his dad as a simple man who led a simple life.

'At his old age, he stayed home most of the time.'

He would spend his time watching TV and sleeping.

Madam Sit said she is deeply saddened by her husband's death, but said that the incident would not put her off crabs.

Mr Tan said: 'It was a rare accident.

'We won't stop eating crabs.

'But we want to warn others to be careful when cleaning crabs.'



My dad's arm had to be amputated to prevent the flesh-eating bacteria from spreading further. It was his only chance to survive. But even so, he did not make it.

- Only son Tan Aik Cheng


How the flesh-eating bug attacks
Last Updated: Thursday, 10 November 2005, 12:51 GMT
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Scientists have discovered how a type of flesh-eating bug disables a key part of the body's immune system.
Muscle infected with the strep bacteria

Muscle infected with the strep bacteria


A team from Hammersmith Hospitals NHS Trust looked at why the streptococcus A bacteria can be deadly in some cases.

It causes conditions ranging from mild throat infections to the flesh-eating bug necrotising fasciitis.

The Hammersmith team found group A strep can destroy a key immune system messenger which should alert the body to the bacteria's presence.

We could potentially have a vaccine against streptococcus necrotising fasciitis
Professor Ron Cutler, University of East London

Many people carry the bacteria harmlessly on their skin and in their nose and throat.

But it can cause severe bloodstream infections, toxic shock syndrome - and necrotising fasciitis.

Over 2,000 cases of invasive disease caused by strep A are reported every year. Up to one in five patients die, if the bacteria get into the blood.

'Shooting the messenger'

The team's research began when a patient admitted to the hospital died from necrotising fasciitis, caused by a very virulent form of strep A.

Experts looked at post mortem samples from the patient and found that, despite the presence of the bacteria in muscle tissue, there were hardly any white blood cells, which would normally be the body's first line of defence.

The strain affecting the patient was isolated and grown in the lab, and biochemical analysis found that the bacteria prevented the immune system responding as normal by "shooting the messenger".

The bacteria interacts with a molecule called IL-8 which should act as the messenger to rally other parts of the immune system to attack the "invader".
But these messages are blocked, meaning the bacteria is unchecked.

The researchers then looked closely at its make-up.

They found a particular piece on the surface of the bacteria, which they have called SpyCEP, is responsible for blocking the action of IL-8.

Strains of strep A with the highest levels of SpyCEP were most effective at inhibiting the body's immune response.

Dr Shiranee Sriskandan, who led the research, said the finding was important because more analysis of the SpyCEP fragment could help in the development of a vaccine against strep A.

She said: "There is currently no vaccine against all types of group A strep.
"We are hopeful that this is the first step to developing one that is broadly effective and safe."

Professor Ron Cutler, an infectious diseases expert at the University of East London, said: "This is an exciting finding."

He added: "It's a very technical finding, but we could potentially have a vaccine against streptococcus necrotising fasciitis."

Professor Cutler said much more research was needed to develop any vaccine and to see how effective it could be, and who should be receive it.

The research has been published in the Journal of Infectious Diseases.


Singaporeans like to eat chilli crabs. This blog is not to hinder anyone from eating such seafood delicacies.

You may eat them. The flesh-eating bugs are not only found in crustaceans.

If you cook your food properly, you need not worry.

Just take more precautions when preparing the dishes.

Don't prick yourself!

Monday, March 26, 2007

Lost And Found - The Maths Genius.

This post is long overdue.
I've been overloaded with work and establishing staff welfare while not forgetting my family.

I woke up one morning last week to find this A4 size paper on the fridge.

Lost & FoundWhen my sister came into the kitchen, she told me that her son did it by himself.
I smiled as I analysed my nephew's work.

For a primary three student, he amazed me. There's humour in the poster.

This is the boy who told my mom last December that he did not do well in school.
He got all A's in his subjects except for Mathematics. I asked him what he meant by not doing well and he told me that it was because he got a B in Mathematics!

I corrected him that as long as he did his best for anything,
he is doing well and that getting a B in Maths is OKAY.

hmmm ... I foresee another Maths genius in the family!

Yes, this is the boy who put up the poster asking if we had found his book.
Nazirul Akmal
This is Nazirul Akmal Bin Rashid.
My nephew! ")

errr ...
in case you are wondering what happened to his book ...
his Ustazah had accidentally kept it.

No rewards for any right guesses!

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

I'm Missing You!

I enjoyed our outing earlier today.

It was filled with varieties of emotions --
from worries and stress
to satisfaction and relaxation.

Even Dr. Poh KK's show of emotion makes me smile!
There was humour in that Heart Centre .... hehehe

Yup ... the massage really works!
You'll get your full body massage soon, sayang ;-)

Anyway, while watching American Idol on TV, I texted you the song title of Diana Ross' Missing You and you happened to call me just as I sent the message.

Now is that a coincidence or is that telepathy at work?

Well, what ever it is ...

I'm missing you!




That was the original 1994 Diana Ross' version written by Lionel Richie.

The one shown below is Whitney Houston's version sung on 5th October 1997.


Diana Ross - Missing You
(Lionel Richie)

Since you've been away
I've been down and lonely
Since you've been away
I've been thinking of you
Trying to understand
The reason you left me
What were you going through?

I'm missing you
Tell me why the road turns
Ooh ooh
I'm missing you
Tell me why the road turns

As I look around
I see things that remind me
Just to see you smile
Made my heart fill with joy
I'll still recall
All those dreams we shared together
Where did you run to, boy?

I'm missing you
Tell me why the road turns
Ooh ooh
I'm missing you
Tell me why the road turns

Sometimes I've wondered
I didn't understand
Just where you were trying to go
Only you knew the plan
And I tried to be there
But you wouldn't let me in

But now you've gone away boy
I feel so broken hearted
I knew the day we started
That we were meant to be
If only you'd let me!
I've cried so many tears
Gotta face now all my fears
We let time slip away
I need you boy
Here today!

There was so much you gave me
To my heart
To my soul
There was so much of your dreams
That were never told
You had so much hope
For a brighter day
Why were you my flower
Plucked away

I'm missing you
Tell me why the road turns
Ooh ooh
I'm missing you
Tell me why the road turns

Monday, March 12, 2007

Fold Your Own Clothes!

I was lazing around on the sofa half-asleep and half-awake when my eyes focused on the tv that was staring at me for the past hour.

It was 'The Martha Stewart Show' and she has this guest who was showing her how to fold a t-shirt.

I was saying to myself ... yeah yeah ... trying to teach me how to fold my own clothes, huh?

I jumped up when I realised that the folding technique was different and that the finish was as if the t-shirt came from a shop display.

It got me interested.

I tried to remember the methods. It was simple but I could not figure out how our hands become twisted and when they come back untwisted, the t-shirt was folded!

It was like magic!




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Sunday, March 04, 2007

Listen to Your Heart.

DHT - Listen to Your Heart.

original slow version

DHT - Listen to Your Heart


a faster version

DHT ft Edmee - Listen To Your Heart


"DHT - Listen To Your Heart"


I know there's something in the wake of your smile
I get a notion from the look in your eyes yeah
You've built a love but that love falls apart
Your little piece of heaven turns to dark

Listen to your heart
When he's calling for you
Listen to your heart
There's nothing else you can do
I don't know where you're going
And I don't know why
But listen to your heart
Before you tell him goodbye

Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile
The precious moments are all lost in the tide yeah
They're swept away and nothing is what it seems
The feeling of belonging to your dreams

Listen to your heart
When he's calling for you
Listen to your heart
There's nothing else you can do
I don't know where you're going
And I don't know why
But listen to your heart
Before.... you tell him goodbye

And there are voices that want to be heard
So much to mention but you can't find the words
The scent of magic, the beauty that's been
When love was wilder than the wind

Listen to your heart (take a listen to it)
When he's calling for you
Listen to your heart (take a listen to it)
There's nothing else you can do
I don't know where you're going
And I don't know why
But listen to your heart
Before oh... before you tell him goodbye

Listen to your heart (take a listen to it)
When he's calling for you
Listen to your heart (take a listen to it)
There's nothing else you can do
I don't know where you're going
And I don't know why
But listen to your heart
Before you tell him goodbye

Thursday, March 01, 2007

Rain, Rain, Go Away ....

I was not working yesterday and had intended to pay my bills.
The rainy weather had me cooped up in my room.
I felt gloomy just like the weather.

Lucky for me, my SM kept calling from work ...
yayyyy!

It was later in the afternoon that we decided to meet.
She would be meeting me after work.

I knew how tired she would be.
She has plenty of things to do.

Her exam is only days away!

Anyway, when we finally met at 10.30pm,
I received a gift from SM.

It is a fridge magnet!!!

My heart is stuck on Nur Farah Damri!aawwwwww ..... I'm touched.

Thank you, Sayang.

* mmmmmmmuackz * to my Sayang Manja!
* mmmmmuackzzz *

I will be using this to pin up notes on my desk.

Like the magnetic heart that sticks on the board,
my heart remains forever attached to my SM.


I'm missing her now.

May she have a safe journey home from work.
Ameen.

A. Karim BAR loves Nur Farah Damri.

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007

Last Sunday, I was invited to the Chinese New Year Garden Party for Grassroot Leaders 2007 held at the Istana. The invitation was for two but my partner had another important event taking place at Changi Airport.

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007This party is a whole day event but due to the big number of grassroot leaders and the limited space, we were invited at different time-slots. The purpose of the party is for all grassroot leaders to be able to meet the Prime Minister and his Cabinet Ministers. This is the time for us to rub shoulders with our PM and MPs!!!

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007The invitation card had been pre-autographed by the Prime Minister and Members of Parliament! So there was no need to rush for autographs.

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007That is the Istana above and the party is at the garden below which is a walking distance from the stairs.
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007This fountain is at the centre of the garden.

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007Nice display of oranges!

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007The Singapore Chinese Orchestra performed live and they took a group photograph with PM Lee.
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007This group was standing-by to get a snapshot with our PM.
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007Do you recognise these two MPs?

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007 Yummmy!
Food glorious food!

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007 Eurasian handicrafts were being displayed.
Look at how they decorated Miss Piggy!
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007 The art of Chinese calligraphy. That is the sign for the Pig.

Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007 The Malay group wrote in Jawi.
You name it, we write them!
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007 The Indian Society provided henna painting.
Look at the intricate patterns.
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007 The crowd is everywhere!
But where was I?
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007 Yup! Posing in front of the Istana.
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007

Everybody was given a doorgift which is a bag containing two oranges and a red packet (hong bao).
Chinese New Year Garden Party 2007